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Giving From the Bottom

8/1/2021

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You should each give, then, as you have decided, not with regret or out of a sense of duty; for God loves the one who gives gladly. And God is able to give you more than you need, so that you will always have all you need for yourselves and more than enough for every good cause. 
– 2 Corinthians 9:7-8 GNT

There are few things more important in life than giving. Those who are generous, have been found to live happier and healthier lives than those who are not. Also, generous individuals are more socially connected to their communities and inspire others to give. Giving is also biblical; God provided us with life and hope by giving us Jesus, who reminded us that, “it is better to give than receive” (Acts 20:35). Our problem is, we often conflate giving with money, but there are things (time, love, compassion, etc.) more valuable than money that you can give. 

One of the greatest givers I had the pleasure of knowing was my Uncle Anthony. He was not a man of great means, but that never stopped him from giving. He didn’t just give money, he gave his time, counsel, empathy, and kindness to others. When giving, he liked to say, “I know it’s not much, but it’s something.” If what you are giving comes from a place of love, then it does not matter how much it is. What you give is not as important as where you are giving it from.

The Widow’s Offering

As Jesus sat near the Temple treasury, he watched the people as they dropped in their money. Many rich men dropped in a lot of money; then a poor widow came along and dropped in two little copper coins, worth about a penny. He called his disciples together and said to them, “I tell you that this poor widow put more in the offering box than all the others. For the others put in what they had to spare of their riches; but she, poor as she is, put in all she had—she gave all she had to live on.” – Mark 12:41-44 GNT

God is more concerned with the quality, rather than the quantity of a thing. Jesus proves this by not being moved by what the rich men were giving but instead was moved by the widow’s offering. This widow gave from the bottom – she did not have much to give but it was something and it was done with the right motives. The others gave from their wealth, but she gave from her commitment and faith. 

Motives 

When giving, always do it with the right motives. Do not give money hoping to get it back. Do not help others just to make yourself look good. Do not give your time just because you have nothing else to do. Your kind words, deeds, and gestures should come from your heart not from your ego. 

Commitment and Faith 

Giving was not unfamiliar to this woman. The fact that she was at the temple to give proves her commitment because typically when we feel like we do not have much to give, we refrain from giving. Society honors those who selfishly hold onto what they have, but God honors those who selflessly gives from the treasures that He has placed within them. That is why He tells us that if we are giving gladly, from a place of commitment and faith that what we give will be given back to us in full - pressed down, shaken together to make room for more, running over, and poured into our lap. The amount we give will determine the amount we get back (Luke 6:38). 

Therefore, give away what you want more of in your life. What you give should always be connected to a sacrifice. To give us life, Jesus had to sacrifice His life. So, if you want money, give money. If you want inspiration, inspire and uplift someone else. If you want love, give love. Learn to give not just what you have an abundance of, but what you want more of, and trust that God will provide for you and give you; in-return, everything you need. 

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Dedicated to my Uncle Anthony Thompson 1952 - 2020
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Free Indeed

6/20/2021

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"The Lord's Spirit has come to me, because he has chosen me to tell the good news to the poor. The Lord has sent me to announce freedom for prisoners, to give sight to the blind, to free everyone who suffers…” - Luke 4:18 CEV
 
As a believer, it is important to understand that freedom is more than deliverance from physical captivity or a repressive regime - it is liberty from destructive mindsets, negative words, and poor decisions. Christ’s proclamation to free the prisoners is not a promise to free you from imprisonment, (just ask John the Baptist) it is a promise to free you from yourself.  
 
Are you free or has the things of this world imprisoned you? Has the separation left you a prisoner to loneliness? Has the unemployment left you a prisoner to depression? Has the debt left you a prisoner to thievery? Has the death left you a prisoner to grief? Your prison may be emotional, mental, or physical but there is something holding you captive, something that is preventing you from reaching your full potential in Christ Jesus.
 
During times of trouble I called on the LORD. The LORD answered me [and] set me free [from all of them]. - Psalm 118:5 GWT
 
When Christ died, He guaranteed your freedom from shame, sin, desperation, depression, and anxiety. If you want to live free, you are going to have to declare your independence, fight for it, and constitute a new way of life.
 
Declaration
 
Freedom is what we have--Christ has set us free! Stand, then, as free people, and do not allow yourselves to become slaves again. - Galatians 5:1 GNT
 
There is a false quote attributed to Harriet Tubman in which she purportedly said, “I freed a thousand slaves I could have freed a thousand more if only they knew they were slaves.” While the quote is inauthentic, its sentiments are true. You cannot be set free from that which enslaves you, if you do not first acknowledge that you are being held captive. You must first admit and recognize that you have a problem before you can address it and be set free from it.
 
Now, once the issue is recognized you must declare and believe that you are indeed free from it. That is easier said then done, because the enemy convicts us in our thinking. He is going to tell you that because of your shortcomings that God will never forgive or love you. He does this to hold your mind captive, to keep you from seeking and receiving God’s truth. Remember, a big lie withers in the face of a small truth. So, declare your freedom even if you do not feel free because with God, we believe first then we see.
 
Fight
 
And who can win this battle against the world? Only those who believe that Jesus is the Son of God. - 1 John 5:5 NLT
 
The enemy is not going to let you go without a fight. He will make that in which you know is wrong feel right. You are going to have to fight back against urges to return to those things that once held you captive. You are going to have to fight back against the urge to lie, cheat and steal. You are going to have to fight back against anger, jealousy, and doubt. You are going to have to fight back against deception and manipulation. Do not let the length of your captivity discourage you from fighting against it. If you want to win the battle, you are going to have to show up to the fight.
 
Constitution
 
Then [the unclean spirit] says, ‘I will return to my house from which I came.’ And when it arrives, it finds the place unoccupied, swept, and put in order. Then it goes and brings with it seven other spirits more wicked than itself, and they go in and make their home there. And the last condition of that man becomes worse than the first. - Matthew 12:44-45 AMP
 
It is not enough to just declare and fight for your freedom - you are going to have to change your lifestyle and replace destructive behaviors with Christ centered ones, or you will find yourself back in bondage. You cannot say you are free from drugs, alcohol, or porn if you continue to consume it. You cannot say you are free from gossip if you continue to disparage others. You cannot say you are free from your negative thoughts if you continue to make decisions based off those thoughts. If you do not change the way you live, the unclean spirit you defeated will return to you and bring other spirits with him. It is not enough to declare your freedom, you must live like a free person, like a person who believes that those things that once had power over you no longer does.
 
Being free means you have been set free, and you are continuously being set free - meaning those things that once confined you no longer has power over you and the current attack of the enemy will not enslave you. So confidently declare your freedom, fight for, and preserve it.

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The Company You Keep

6/6/2021

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Don't fool yourselves. Bad friends will destroy you. - 1 Corinthians 15:33 CEV
 
One of the most difficult things you will experience in this life, is the abandonment by people you once considered friends. When you are going through a hardship, not everyone who says they care about and support you will stand with you during your most trying times. People you laughed with, spent time with, worked with and cared about will disappear when you need them the most.
 
The quality of our relationships is determined by the character of the people we allow to have access to us. Keep an eye on the Judas Iscariot’s in your life. You can identify them through their actions because every Judas will steal from you, eat with you and intimately embrace you.
 
Steal
 
Judas did not really care about the poor. He asked this because he carried the moneybag and sometimes would steal from it. – John 12:6 CEV
 
Judas was the treasurer amongst the disciples, meaning he oversaw valuable things. Be mindful of those who want to oversee the valuable things in your life: your time, thoughts and love. You cannot trust and confide in everyone. Some people want to get close to you just to steal from you - they steal your joy, peace and happiness. See who is stealing your most valuable resources and ask yourself if they are there for you or if they are there for what they can take from you.
 
Eat
 
So [Peter] leaned back against Jesus and asked him, “Lord, who is it?”
Jesus replied, “He’s the one I give the piece of bread to after I have dipped it.” When he had dipped the bread, he gave it to Judas, Simon Iscariot’s son.  After Judas ate the piece of bread, Satan entered him. So, Jesus told him, “What you’re doing, do quickly.” – John 13:25 - 27 CEV
 
Who have you invited into your life that eats your food but never brings a dish? Or to put it another way, who have you invested into who hasn’t given anything back to you? You can’t invite everyone to sit and enjoy the most intimate parts of your life, especially if they are not contributing to your life in a loving and meaningful way.
 
Dr. Dharius Daniels; in his book, Relational Intelligence, talks about the importance of reciprocity in relationships. He says that “we will never be able to give back to someone in a relationship exactly what they give to us. But we can give something. Reciprocation is a way to steward relationships. Reciprocation helps us minimize the likelihood of exploitation in relationships. It prevents us from using people and being used.”
 
Intimate Embrace
 
Judas had told them ahead of time, "Arrest the man I greet with a kiss." – Matthew 26:48 CEV
 
Everyone who kisses you, hugs you and shares a bed with you does not love you. It is easy to confuse intimacy with feelings of love and support. Watch for those who view your vulnerability and weakness as a way to use and manipulate you. Your enemies will disguise themselves in empty words, fake smiles and heartless gestures in order to get close to you only to later abandon you after they have gotten what they want from you. Be watchful at all times, praying that you have the strength to identify all the works of those who want to harm you (Luke 21:36).
 
Most importantly, God will always show you the truth about yourself first, before He show you the truth about someone else. Make sure you are not the Judas in your relationships. Make sure you are not the one stealing, eating and kissing in order to get what you want instead of being a true and supportive friend. 
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Do It Again

5/23/2021

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My flesh may fail, and my spirit may grow weak, but God remains the strength of my heart; he is mine forever.
- Psalm 73:26 NLT

 
Success can be defined as the positive outcome of an endeavor. We tend to uplift and honor successful men and women because we value what we perceive to be someone’s hard work and ingenuity paying off. What we do not honor is failure – failure is frowned upon, ridiculed and mocked. You will never discover your full potential or purpose if you are afraid of failing because failure is the foundation on which success is built.
 
In what areas of your life have you failed? Have you failed as a husband or wife? Have you failed as a son or daughter? Have you failed at school? Have you failed on a business venture, at your job or in your finances? Failure is not defined as a lack of success; it is never trying again that signifies failure.
 
Do It
 
Shortly before dawn Jesus went out to them, walking on the lake. When the disciples saw him walking on the lake, they were terrified. “It’s a ghost,” they said, and cried out in fear. But Jesus immediately said to them: “Take courage! It is I. Don’t be afraid.” “Lord, if it’s you,” Peter replied, “tell me to come to you on the water.”

“Come,” he said.
 
Then Peter got down out of the boat, walked on the water and came toward Jesus. But when he saw the wind, he was afraid and, beginning to sink, cried out, “Lord, save me!” - Matthew 14:25-30 NIV
 
“Lord, save me!” Those are the words of a drowning person. There isn’t a worse feeling than drowning, than feeling helpless and abandoned. When we first begin to drown, we fight for our survival, doing all we can to stay afloat, but fighting makes us tired. In our tiredness, we stop fighting and give up, and when we give up, we go under. So, the business drowns, the marriage drowns, the recovery drowns, and our faith drowns.
 
What are you going to do when what you were hoping and depending on drowns? Are you going to quit or are you going to trust God? Are you going to say, “nothing good ever happens to me” or are you going to declare that “I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me” (Philippians 4;13)? Are you going to stay in your failure or are you going to believe that though you may fall, you are not cast down: for the Lord upholds you with His hand (Psalm 37:24)?
 
Do It Again
 
Early in the morning, Jesus stood on the shore, but the disciples did not realize that it was Jesus.
 
He called out to them, “Friends, haven’t you any fish?”
 
“No,” they answered.

He said, “Throw your net on the right side of the boat and you will find some.” When they did, they were unable to haul the net in because of the large number of fish.

Then the disciple whom Jesus loved said to Peter, “It is the Lord!” As soon as Simon Peter heard him say, “It is the Lord,” he wrapped his outer garment around him (for he had taken it off) and jumped into the water.
- John 2:4-7 NIV
 
Where some people see failure, God sees faith. Peter got out of the boat twice. The first time he walked on water and began to drown when he took his eyes off Jesus. Would you say Peter failed because he drowned, or would you say he had faith because he got out of the boat and walked on water? There is faith in every failure, learn from what did not work so that you can grow in stature, wisdom and favor with God. The second time Peter got out of the boat, he did not worry about drowning and did not even wait for confirmation that it was Jesus who was instructing them because he had previously learned that Jesus would not let him drown. So, do it again. Learning from what is behind and reaching forward to what is ahead (Philippians 3:13).
 
When Jesus instructed His disciples to do it again. They did not protest or question His direction, they just did it again and found success where there was previously failure. God is instructing you to do it again. To try again. Hope again. Believe again. Because He has a blessing waiting on you if you do not give up.

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Don't Be Ashamed

5/2/2021

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Because the Sovereign LORD helps me, I will not be disgraced. Therefore, I have set my face like a stone, determined to do his will. And I know that I will not be put to shame.
- Isaiah 50:7 NLT
 
I recently received a message from someone saying that I deserved everything that has happened to me. Now, my first inclination was to “clap back” at this person but remember, cynical voices are to be ignored and not elevated. Be mindful of the voices you are elevating in your life. You do not have to respond to every critique and criticism because some people are so miserable that all they have to make themselves feel happy is trying to make others feel unhappy.
 
Welcome those who are weak in faith, but do not argue with them about their [foolish] and personal opinions. - Romans 14:1 GNT
 
The devil wants to shame you into submission. He wants you to think that God has condemned you. He wants you to think that what others say about you matters. He wants to separate you from those who love and care about you. He wants you alone and isolated so he can talk to you - tempting and encouraging you to covet what others have and live a life of jealousy, greed, shame and hopelessness.
 
Garden Talk
 
Now the serpent was more crafty than any of the wild animals the Lord God had made. He said to the woman, “Did God really say, ‘You must not eat from any tree in the garden’?”
- Genesis 3:1 NIV
 
The Garden of Eden was a middle ground between Heaven and Earth. It was a place where God and man could fellowship with one another. When Eve felt as if she was alone in the garden, the enemy came to talk to and deceive her. In Eden, she and Adam had all they would ever need but the enemy convinced them to want more. In their pursuit for more, both her and Adam lost what they had.
 
What is the enemy convincing you to want more of? He wants you to be unsatisfied with what you have and exchange it for what he offers. He wants you to exchange your faith for fear, your family for a fling, your hope for doubt, your savings for debt and your confidence for shame. You already have everything you need to live a blessed and purpose filled life. If you did not, the enemy would not be talking to you - because who trades for something they already have? Ignore the desires to obtain more of this world and thank God for what He has already given you.
 
Desert Talk
 
Then the Spirit led Jesus into the desert to be tempted by the Devil. - Matthew 4:1 GNT
 
When we find ourselves outside of Eden (fellowship with God), in a desolate place, the enemy comes to tempt us, to exploit our shame and he often uses people to accomplish this goal. He uses gossip, nasty text messages and social media comments to make us doubt ourselves and God’s love for us. He shows us how other people are pretending to live so that we will chase a mirage instead of the truth.
 
When Jesus found Himself in a desert place, the Devil tried to tempt Him with many lies, but He countered those temptations with God’s word. So, when you find yourself in a lonely and uncertain place, wanting to quit on yourself and God - rely on His word. Remember, the temptations in your life are no different from what others experience. And God is faithful. He will not allow the temptation to be more than you can stand. When you are tempted, he will show you a way out so that you can endure. (1 Corinthians 10:13). If God led you to it, He would surely lead, love and provide for you through it.
 
Bush Talk
 
When the Lord saw Moses coming near the bush, he called him by name, and Moses answered, “Here I am.” - Exodus 3:4 CEV
 
Moses was a fugitive and if you had killed someone, you would consider fleeing too. By all means, he should have been disqualified from spreading the gospel and leading God’s people after killing a man. He even doubted himself, saying he was a “nobody”. Maybe, you feel like a nobody. Maybe you lost your Eden and fell to temptation. Maybe you started believing what the enemy has been telling you - that your best days are behind you and that God can’t use you.
 
Be repentant, but don’t be shame. Don’t be shame about your past and don’t let a mistake stop you from hearing God’s call. He called you, not because you deserved it, but because of His own purpose and grace (2 Timothy 1:9). It’s not who talks to you that matters, it’s who you listen to. Don’t listen to those who do the enemy’s bidding. Your worth was predetermined by God and He never made a worthless thing. So, when He calls your name, like Moses, respond “Here I am”. Even if you are uncertain about where He is taking you and what He is calling you to do, respond, “Here I am.” 
 
Keep your eyes on the LORD! You will shine like the sun and never be ashamed.
- Psalm 34:5 CEV

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Pits, Prisons & Palaces

4/18/2021

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Hold on to what you have, so that no one will take your crown. – Revelations 3:11 NIV
 
Life is full of peaks and valleys – meaning, throughout your life you will experience many ups and downs. The key then becomes to not allow yourself to get too high or low because in an instant, your situation can change. So, celebrate the blessings, breakthroughs and relationships you have today because tomorrow, they may be gone.
 
I tend to look at life through the lens of Joseph’s eyes. Joseph was a dreamer who gained favor with God. Yet, during different stages of his life he found himself in situations and predicaments that would have caused most people to quit. Joseph understood that while the steps of a righteous man are ordered by the Lord (Proverbs 37:23), those steps often lead us through pits and prisons before we reach the palace.
 
Pits
 
So, when Joseph came to his brothers, they stripped him of his robe… and they took him and threw him into the pit. Now the pit was empty, with no water in it. - Genesis 37:23-24 BSB
 
Joseph’s brothers hated him because their father favored him. Some people are going to hate you because of the favor God bestows upon you. When Joseph found himself at the bottom of the pit, I am sure he was angry, confused and scared. Maybe, today you find yourself in a pit. In an empty and dry place. Sometimes people push us into a pit but other times through our own words and actions we jump into the pit all on our own. It does not matter how you got into your pit - just as long as you do not stay there. Remember, your pit is not your final destination.  
 
You can’t dig your way out of a pit and if it is deep enough, you won’t be able to climb out, but God is always near enough to reach down and pull you out. No matter how deep your pit is, call out to the Lord in times of trouble and He will deliver you from your distress (Psalm 107:28).
 
Prisons
 
When Potiphar heard his wife’s story (that Joseph had tried to sleep with her) …  he became very angry. So, Joseph’s master arrested him and put him in prison. While Joseph was in prison, the Lord was with him. The Lord reached out to him with his unchanging love and gave him protection. He gave him favor in the sight of the keeper of the prison. - Genesis 39:19-21 GW
 
After being removed from the pit, Joseph was sold to a man named Potiphar. While serving in Potiphar’s house, his wife lied on Joseph. Because of this, Joseph was thrown into jail. What happened to Joseph was unfair and not right. The same may be true for what you are experiencing. It is not fair that you were abandoned. It is not right that you were lied on. It hurts being laid-off, taken advantage of and discarded.
 
Under the circumstances, it becomes easy to allow anger, hatred, jealousy, fear and offense to take root within you - when you do, you are imprisoning yourself. Your prison is your state of mind after the pit. Some nice, caring, happy individuals go into a pit and come out bitter, angry and vengeful. Do not let your pit to turn into a prison, instead allow God to transform you into a new person, by changing the way you think about your situation (Romans 12:2).    
 
Joseph decided to trust God through the process and God favored him because of it. He did not become mad or despondent nor did he dwell on his past hurts or current circumstances, but he instead allowed God to transform and use him where he was. Let God use you where you are. Let God use you through the divorce. Let God use you while you’re unemployed. Let God use you through the sickness. Let God use you through the loneliness, debt and uncertainty. When you let God use you - He places His love, protection and approval upon you.
 
Palaces
 
So, Pharaoh put Joseph in charge of all Egypt and said to him, “I am Pharaoh, but no one will lift a hand or foot in the entire land of Egypt without your approval.” – Genesis 41:43-44 NLT
 
Joseph did not stay in his pit and he did not allow negative thoughts to imprison him. Because of this, he found favor with both God and man - a favor that led him to the palace. No matter where you find yourself today - either a pit or a prison, place your trust in God and He will bring you to your palace.
 
Everything you are going through today is leading to a palace - to a breakthrough and blessing you were not anticipating, to a child you didn’t think you would have, to a relationship you did not expect, to a job, promotion or healthy doctors report. So, do not get discouraged and quit before you reach your palace. If you don’t give up prematurely, you will see the manifestation of your dreams and find that the very people who meant to harm you will be the ones bowing before you in the palace.  
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Seasons

4/18/2021

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It is not for you to know times or seasons that the Father has fixed by his own authority. – Acts 1:7 ESV
 
Throughout the course of a year, we experience four different seasons: winter, spring, summer and autumn. Each season is characterized by different meteorological events. For instance, during the winter season the days are short, and the air is cold – with some areas experiencing snow and ice while the summer season is marked by long days and is the hottest time of the year which can result in droughts and wildfires.
 
We know that there is a time and season for everything. A time to be born and a time to die. A time to tear down and a time to build up. A time to cry and a time to laugh. A time to hug tightly and a time to let go (Ecclesiastes 3:1-5). Seasons are inevitable, but how we transition from one season to another, shows how faithful we are to God’s word and direction.
 
To successfully transition into a new season, you are going to have to change your plans, clothes and thermostat.
 
Plans
 
It is not advised to plan a Caribbean vacation for September because it is the height of hurricane season in the Atlantic. If you had a vacation planned during that time and a hurricane formed, you would be forced to change your plans.
 
Life often sends us unexpected storms that ultimately alters our plans. You may have thought that you would be married by now or still married, but a storm came. You may have thought that you would be employed by now, but a storm came. You may have thought that you would be over that addiction by now, that you would have a child by now or that you would be out of debt by now, but a storm came.
 
When life sends you a storm that changes your plans – call on the one who said, “I know the plans I have for you, plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future” (Jeremiah 29:11). Call on the who created the winds and the rains, who will instruct you and teach you the way you should go in the middle of a storm (Psalm 32:8). Do not be upset if God changes the plans you had for your life, because His plans for you are far greater.
 
People may plan all kinds of things, but the LORD's will is going to be done. – Proverbs 19:21 GNT
 
Clothes
 
Seasonal transitions are volatile. When transitioning from winter to spring—one day might be sunny and dry while the next day might be cold and snowy. So, the challenge becomes what to wear in such weather.
 
What do you put on during volatile and unpredictable times? Do you wear guilt and shame? Do you wear anger, anxiety, or unforgiveness? We are instructed to be strong in the Lord and in His mighty power. To put on the full armor of God, so that we can take our stand against the devil’s schemes during uncertain times (Ephesians 6:10).
 
You would not wear a winter coat during the summer because it is not appropriate for that season. Similarly, you should not wear condemnation, fear or offense. Remove your coat. Remove the humiliation, jealousy, grief and pride from your life so that you can move confidently with God into the next season of your life. If not, you will remain in your winter (depression, negativity and anxiety) when God wants to move you into your spring (joy, optimism and peace).  
 
No one patches an old coat with a new piece of cloth that will shrink. Otherwise, the new patch will shrink and rip away some of the old cloth, and the tear will become worse. – Mark 2:21 GWT
 
Thermostat
 
What you wear outside is a reaction to the external temperature. But internally, in your home, you control the temperature with a thermostat. So, if it is cold outside, you can make it warm in your house or if it is hot outside, you can make it cold in your house. You control and regulate the internal environment.
 
You control and regulate your happiness. You control and regulate your feelings. You control and regulate your reactions. You cannot control the adversity, but you can control your response to it. You cannot control people, but you can control how you treat them. You cannot control when you are going to die, but you can control the type of life you live. Control what you can control and let God handle everything else.
 
Losing self-control leaves you as helpless as a city without a wall. – Proverbs 25:28 CEV
 
Seasons are always changing, and it is incumbent upon us to change as the seasons change. Though our situation and circumstances are everchanging, God is the same. While His spirit is the same, how we witness Him should change in every season of our life. In this season of your life, He may be a comforter while in another He is a provider. No matter the season you find yourself in – hold on to God and His unchanging hand.

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By This Time Next Year

2/14/2021

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“It is too wonderful for you to understand.” – Judges 13:18 GNT
 
For over two years, I prayed to God for a job and for two years I was disappointed when I did not receive one. I became more dispirited with every no I received, until I stopped expecting any good news. What do you do when you trust and believe in God but doubt that His promises apply to you?
 
I witnessed others receive breakthroughs and blessings around me, but I convinced myself that those things do not pertain to me. By the time I finally received a job offer, I was so accustomed to disappointment that I could not even get excited. It was too good to be true, I imagined that they would withdraw the offer, leaving me disappointed yet again. Surely enough, less than 24 hours after receiving the job offer, it was rescinded from me. No explanation was given. There is no worst feeling than losing what you hoped for after receiving it.  
 
Have you become so comfortable in your frustrations that the blessings of God no longer excite you? Have you been single for so long that you look at a quality partner with skeptical eyes? Have you been unhappy for so long that you view any good news negatively? Have you been living in pessimism for so long that hopefulness scares you?
 
Please, Do Not Lie to Me
 
One day Elisha went to Shunem, where a great woman lived. She invited him to a meal, and from then on, every time he went to Shunem he would have his meals at her house. She said to her husband, “I am sure that this man who comes here so often is a holy man. Let's build a small room on the roof, put a bed, a table, a chair, and a lamp in it, and he can stay there whenever he visits us.” – 2 Kings 4:8-10 GNT
 
Elisha asked Gehazi (his servant), “What can I do for her then?”

He answered, “Well, she has no son, and her husband is an old man.”

“Tell her to come here,” Elisha ordered. She came and stood in the doorway, and Elisha said to her, “By this time next year you will be holding a son in your arms.”

“Oh!” she exclaimed. “Please, sir, don't lie to me. You are a man of God!”
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 But, as Elisha had said, at about that time the following year she gave birth to a son.
- 2 Kings 4:14-17 GNT
 
Unlike the other barren women, we learn about throughout the Bible, this Shunammite woman did not ask God for a child, but God knows our buried desires. Maybe she, like you and I, had been disappointed so many times before that she stopped praying and believing for something, she considered to be out of the realm of possibility. It is hard for us to believe that God’s promises apply to us because we know ALL the things that we have done and said that should disqualify us from His blessings. But the LORD is good to all, and His mercy is over all that He has made (Psalm 145:9).
 
People have misled us so much, that we think it applies to God. God is not like people, who lie; He is not a human who changes His mind. Whatever He promises, He does; He speaks, and it is done (Numbers 23:19). If God promised to heal you then you will be healed. If God promised to deliver you then you will be saved. If God promised to never leave or forsake you (Deuteronomy 31:6) then take heart in knowing that it will be done. Put God first, and by this time next year you will be giving birth to the purpose He has placed within you, and you will be in a better position spiritually, emotionally, financially and mentally.
 
Everything is All Right
 
Years after the Shunammite woman gave birth, the son Elisha promised her had died. She went and confronted Elisha:
 
When he saw her in the distance, the man of God said to his servant Gehazi, “Look! There’s the Shunammite! Run to meet her and ask her, ‘Are you all right? Is your husband all right? Is your child all right?’”
 
“Everything is all right,” she said. – 2 Kings 4:25-26 NIV
 
“Sir, did I ask you for a son? Didn't I tell you not to get my hopes up?” - 2 Kings 4:28 GNT
 
This woman never admitted that her child had died. When confronted with what was seen, she took comfort in what God said – declaring that everything is all right. When you lose the job, trust and believe that everything is all right. When the relationship ends, trust and believe that everything is all right. When the diagnosis is dire, trust and believe that everything is all right. When it looks dead and appears impossible, do not acknowledge what seems inevitable, do not give up, do not let go, until God blesses you (Genesis 32:26).
 
The boy’s body was placed in the room they built for Elisha. When your dreams die, when you lose hope, go back to that place you first built for God in your life. Go back to that place where He first saved, lifted and filled you. Elisha went to her house, walked up to the room and raised the boy back to life. Even though her son had died, she still had the faith to believe that God will work it out for the good. God will bring your hopes and dreams back to life if you just believe. God does not backtrack on His word, and if you are still here then He has more to give you. 
 
“The Lord is good to everyone who trusts in him, So, it is best for us to wait in patience - to wait for him to save us.” – Lamentations 3:25-26 GNT
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The Big Payback

1/31/2021

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“Dear friends, never take revenge. Leave that to the righteous anger of God. For the Scriptures say, ‘I will take revenge; I will pay them back,’ says the LORD” – Romans 12:19 NLT
 
In James Brown’s hit single, The Big Payback, he says:
 
Got to, got to payback
Revenge, I'm mad
Got to get back, I need some get-back
Payback, payback
 
When people do you wrong, talk about you, use you, betray you and abuse you – do you seek payback? Do you allow the need for revenge to alter the way you act, speak and think?
 
It is natural for us as humans to want to payback wrong for wrong. I know I did when I was falsely accused of a crime and seemingly lost everything – my freedom, reputation, and livelihood. I spent nearly two years wanting revenge on all those I deemed to have done me wrong. Simply put, I wanted payback.
 
What others have done to you may not be as traumatic as what I went through, but your feelings of resentment are the same. The spouse you thought you were going to spend the rest of your life with may have walked out on you. The employer you gave so much of your time to may have laid you off. The family member you love may have taken some money from you. The best friend you shared your secrets with may have betrayed your trust. Whatever it is that has brought you to a place of anger, offense, hatred and revenge – let it go. It is not worth another tear, another sleepless night or another argument because what you want, only God can give you.
 
Do not say, “I will do to him as he has done to me; I will pay the man back for what he has done.” – Proverbs 24:29 ESV
 
What you want is to feel whole again. What you want is to feel loved again. What you want is to feel appreciated again. What you want is to be at peace again. Those who hurt you cannot give you any of those things you desire. No apology can replace the days you lost. No amount of money can replace the peace you lost. No restitutions can replace what was taken from you, but God can.
 
God knows what you lost, who betrayed and hurt you and He will repay you. He will give you beauty for ashes, joy for mourning and praise for the spirit of heaviness (Isaiah 61:3). What God gives you may not come in the form of what you lost, but it will always be better.
 
“Instead of your shame you will receive a double portion, and instead of disgrace you will rejoice in your inheritance. And so, you will inherit a double portion in your land, and everlasting joy will be yours.” – Isaiah 61:7 NIV
 
So, do not take it on yourself to repay a wrong. Trust the LORD and He will make it right (Proverbs 20:22). God will restore you on this side of Heaven; you will not have to wait to receive your inheritance. Do not worry about those who hurt you, God will take care of them – just forgive and get yourself ready to sit at the table He is preparing for you in the presence of those who lied on, betrayed, stole from and harmed you.
 
“Don't be hateful and insult people just because they are hateful and insult you. Instead, pay back with a blessing, because a blessing is what God promised to give you when he called you.” – 1 Peter 3:9 CEV
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Prep Time

1/17/2021

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“Always be prepared to give an answer to everyone who asks you to give the reason for the hope that is in you.” – 1 Peter 3:15 NIV
 
Are you ready to receive all the things God has promised you? Are you ready for the breakthrough, relationship, finances, job and family you prayed for? Now, ask yourself this: are you prepared to receive all the things you proclaim to be ready for?
 
Spiritual preparation is the process in which we make ourselves available for use by God. We all say that we are ready to receive the abundant life He promised us (John 10:10) but oftentimes we are not prepared to receive His blessings. Impatience, pride, laziness and the opinions of others frequently deters us from planning. A blessing without preparation can easily become a burden that overwhelms us. 
 
Burdensome Blessing
 
And [Jesus] said, “There was a man who had two sons. And the younger of them said to his father, ‘Father, give me the share of property that is coming to me.’ And he divided his property between them. Not many days later, the younger son gathered all he had and took a journey into a far country, and there he squandered his property in reckless living. And when he had spent everything, a severe famine arose in that country, and he began to be in need. So, he went and hired himself out to one of the citizens of that country, who sent him into his fields to feed pigs. And he was longing to be fed with the pods that the pigs ate, and no one gave him anything.  – Luke 15:11-16 ESV
 
Our blessings can become a burden when we fail to prepare and allow ourselves to be driven by lust, greed and selfish ambitions. Do not squander your blessings in reckless living and unreliable people. That is what happens when we enter into a relationship, business arrangement or position without preparation – we eventually lose it and ourselves in the process.  
 
When the prodigal son was enjoying the excesses of this world, his father was patiently waiting on him to return and when he did, he proclaimed, “[my son] was dead and has come back to life! He was lost, but now he is found (Luke 15:32).” Even if you wasted an opportunity in the past, God, whose mercies are new every morning (Lamentations 3:23) can still redeem you. Like this father, He is willing to wait and extend His love to you even if you make your lot amongst the pigs.
 
Build the Boat
 
When Noah began building the Ark, those around him probably did not understand what he was doing or why he was doing it. Noah was preparing for something that had never been seen before. His obedience and preparation were rewarded when the rain began. As God positions you, be ready for people to ridicule and dismiss you because they do not know or understand the plans God has for you.
 
In the face of scrutiny and uncertainty build your boat. Build the life you want. Build the relationship you desire. Build the family you envisioned. Build the business you imagined. Boat building will require discipline, obedience and sacrifice but when God opens the windows of Heaven for you and rain down a blessing – you will be ready, the blessing will not overwhelm you.
 
People will make judgements of you based off of squandered opportunities, failed relationships and appearances but the Lord looks at the heart (1 Samuel 16:7). The things people do not see – the long nights and sacrifices you made, the tears, praying and planning you put into the pursuit of your calling is what God honors. Do not allow your lack of preparation to delay what God wants to give you. The time between your calling and its manifestation should be used preparing for everything you are trusting and believing God for. God does the planning (Jeremiah 29:11); but it is our responsibility to do the preparing.
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